love...love...love

By: veni Mood: in love Date: 06/10/2008 11:56:36 Music: None

Few Reasons That Girls Like Guys....

1. The way they always wear their favorite cologne (which happens to be the one that you bought them for their birthday)

2. The way the run their hands through your hair

3. The way that they look at you and you want to die right then and there

4. The way that they casually put their arms around you

5. The way that they kiss away your tears

6. ...and the way that they then get mad at how they can't make your problem go away

7. The way they show off around their friends, even though you both know that you would love them even if they missed a basket or two

8. How there eyes light up at the result of 3 hours of preparing for your date

9. How they always know just what to say to make you blush

10. How they sometimes think that they know just what to say to make you feel better, even if you think that it is the worst thing that they could say

11. The way they hold you close when you are cold

12. How they look at you when your mad at them and all your anger melts away

13. How they always smile when you are together

14. The way that they always let you win any game that you play together

15. ... and then when you point that out to them they pretend to not know what you are talking about

16. The way that they smile at you

17. The way that you feel when they call to apologize after you had a big fight


18. The way that they say I love you


19. The way that they say I love you in front of their friends


20. The way that they touch and hold you so gently, like they are afraid that they will break you


21. The way that they kiss you


22. The way that they open their arms to you when you are crying


23. The way that they never admit that you hurt them


24. The way that they try not to cry when they are afraid that they are losing you


25. The way that they think that they are your big protector, even though you think that you are theirs


26. The way that they say I miss you, even though they hate to admit it


27. The way that you miss everything about them when they are gone


28. The way that they remember your special moments, or aniversaries when you think that they forgot


29. The way that they apologize when they do forget


30. The way that they comfort you when you have a bad day


31. The way that you can't wait to get home and tell them all about your day


32. The way that they write you love letters even if they think that it is uncool


33. How they would rather be with you then their friends sometime


34. How you want to hug them even though they are all sweaty


35. Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them... it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without a trace of sound, you know that your own life is inevitabley comsumed within the rhythimic beatings of his heart.


We love them for a million reasons, No paper would do it justice. It is a thing a feeling, that is only felt.
 

16 Signs That U Love Someone...

The Truth About The Meaning Of Love...

This is not like ANY book on love you've read before!

Are You Confused About Being Angry with the One You Love?

Do You Want to Take the Fear Out of Being Close?

Mary and John's story is familiar.

"I hate you -- get out of my life!" she said when he finally arrived. She was furious about his coming home two hours late to a cold dinner on the table. The candles had burned out, and she ate alone. This was not the first time he stood her up. You'd think she would learn! (You'd think he would learn!)

She loved him so much she was enraged, and told him she wanted a divorce and for him to leave and never come back! Obviously to John, Mary no longer loved him, so he left, hurt and upset, and spent the night elsewhere. Mary was even more hurt from his staying away all night.

Of course, she loved him very much. She understood that. But how could she love him and hate him at the same time? She wondered, and he wondered, and with no clear answer they drifted apart.

She didn't understand that love is more than a feeling of pleasure. Love is also an emotional investment. Mary's anger meant that John was very important to her. Otherwise she wouldn't care at all. Anger is an inevitable feeling in any relationship . . . but you have to know how to use the energy to turn upsets into opportunities.

The truth is, many people are confused about how to have a close relationship that works. . . .

. . .and no wonder. . .

There are thousands of families out there that model for their kids how not to be loving with their husband or wife. They may want to know the "Secret of loving relationships ". . . but all they can do is the best they learned from their own parents about how to get along with others. . . .

Love Means Treating Others Well

How to have harmonious relationships is not a mystery. The first meaning of love has to do with how you treat the person you care about. Creating a close, loving relationship is not actually so difficult to understand! How to do it can be learned. In fact, it has to be learned by everyone who knows how to sanctify their relationship rather than pollute it.

• Anyone can do it, and there is no need to sit at the feet of a "guru," spend thousands on training workshops, or give up and settle for doing without the love you want.. . .
  
  
  
• It all comes down to the simple, basic rules of listening, understanding, and empathizing with what is important to your loved one. Once you understand how treating others in loving ways works, your relationship cannot fail because of you.

Now, here's a book about the meaning of love that will show you the foundation on which to build a deeply caring relationship . . .

The Meaning of Love is based on the proven principles and methods that are currently being used by those couples who succeed in their relationships. The other 55% who fail in their marriages use the methods that poison and destroy their relationships.

Meaning Of Love...by Four Year Olds...very Tru And Touching...must Read...

Since a very long time ago, people have searched for the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In a survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But what do little kids know about love? Read on and be surprised that despite their young and innocent minds, kids already have a simple but deep grasp of that four-letter word.

"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way."

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."

"When someone loves you, the way she says your name is different. You know that your name is safe in her mouth."

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your french fries without making them give you any of theirs."

"Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings."

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My mommy and daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss but they look happy and sometimes they dance in the kitchen while kissing."

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."

"Love is hugging. Love is kissing. Love is saying no."

"When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared she won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only does she still love you, she loves you even more."

"There are 2 kinds of love. Our love. God's love. But God makes both kinds of them."

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they've know each other so well."

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."

"Love is-if you hold hands and sit beside each other in the cafeteria. That means you're in love. Otherwise, you can sit across from each other and be okay."

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."

"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken."

"Don't feel so bad if you don't have a boyfriend. There's lots of stuff you can do without one."

"Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."

"If you want somebody to love you, then just be yourself. Some people try to act like somebody else, somebody the boy likes better. I think the boy isn't being very good if he does this to you and you should just find a nicer boy."

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day"

"When you're born and see your mommy for the first time.

"Love is what makes people hide in the dark corners of movie theaters."

"Love goes on even when you stop breathing and you pick up where you left off when you reach heaven."

"My enemies taught me how to love."

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."

"You have to fall in love before you get married. Then when you're married, you just sit around and read books together."

"I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister because I love her."

"Love cards like Valentine's cards say stuff on them that we'd like to say ourselves, but we wouldn't be caught dead saying."

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you."

"Love is when mommy sees daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."

"You never have to be lonely. There's always somebody to love, even if it's just a squirrel or a kitten."

"You can break love, but it won't die."

Tru Love Never Dies....

True love never dies
No matter how serious the fight
You'll return
Either tomorrow or tonight
They say a love
Between friends is eternal
It will carry on forever
Til the end of time
You two will die together.
True love involving lovers won't fade
It might disappear
But it will resurrect
Conquering the loneliness and tears.
love among parents doesn't pass
Speaking might pass for a time
But in the end
You'll be together again as one kind
True love never dies
No matter how long the absence lasts
It will survive the pain
And hold you together even after you pass...

   

 

 

 

 

 

  

~*~ Dancing With Ur Love ~*~

I've never told you
Just how much I really need you,
Your every touch and warmth and sigh,
So beautiful and meaningful,
You are the most wonderful man in the world
So, come close to me
Don't be afraid of me,
Just hold me closely
I want to feel your heartbeat,
Within my soul,
As I will breathe every single one of your breath,
And take you...
To the stars and the moon above,
With a dazzling beauty,
Dancing within your love,
As my heart and soul,
Burns fervent with love for you,
I feel alive and blessed,
To have you....
Now next to me,
Deep within my being,
You are my life my destiny,
My dream come true,
I love you!  

The Abcd...of Love...

A

Absolutely amaze your partner with adoration. Let them know in very special ways that you care. Exercise extravagant respect and devotion toward your lover. Accept them for who they are. Demonstrate your warm attachment and affection to them. Avoid taking your partner for granted.

B

Believe in your instincts. Be spontaneous. Don't plan. . . just do something that you've wanted to do with your partner for a long time. Let your love occur naturally. Stop and pick a roadside flower and present it to your partner.

C

Cuddle. Lie close and be cozy. Do spoons! Just hold each other. There is a very special healing power in a close, warm embrace. C is also for "considerate."

D

Discover new ways of expressing your love for each other. Hire a skywriter. Put a message up on a billboard. Buy a radio commercial to say I love you. Record a special message on a cassette.

E

Entice your lover to try a new way of making love. Always making love the same way can bring on boredom. Focus on pleasure. Enjoy each other to the fullest. Read, Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.

F

Flirt for fun and frivolity. Be creative in your flirting. Pretend you are together for the first time or that you are trying to pick up your lover.

G

Gaze into each other's eyes with a steady intention to say, "I love you" without words. Smile. Notice the eye color. Say something nice about them. Be generous with your love.

H

Have a private party for just the two of you. Candles, music, the works. Talk. Listen. Express your love for one another.

I

Indulge each other's desires. Write your secret desires on pieces of paper and trade. You may be surprised.

J

Joke and have fun together. Lighten up. Be joyous. Release your sense of humor. Have fun with love.

K

Kissy. . . kissy. . . kissy! Quick pecks on the cheek don't work. Give your partner an unexpected, looooooong, juicy kiss. Be keen on kissing!
L

Love with all your heart and soul. Always remember to speak, "I love you" at least once each day. Express love in new and exciting ways. Remember to love yourself and do nice things for you too.

M

Massage away the day's tension and stress. Begin with the feet and work up. Surprise your lover with your magic fingers or tantalizing tongue. Buy some special massage oil; something that smells good.

N

Nurture your need for nibbling. Nibble each other's earlobes or other parts of the body that feels good. Practice a soft, light, romantic nibble with your lover. Nibbling feels good.

O

Offer breakfast in bed or some other surprise your lover might like. Be creative. Plan. Make it very special.

P

Pretend you are long-lost, passionate lovers. Use your imagination. Think! What could you do that you haven't done for a long time? Do that.

Q

Quote your lover a love poem or a special passage from a book or greeting card that expresses exactly how you feel.

R

Remember the little things. Respect your partner by paying attention. Be aware when your partner's likes and dislikes. Notice what makes them happy and deliver more of that.

S

Slow dance by candlelight or in the backyard in the moonlight. Get back to romance. Be sensitive to the romantic needs of your lover. Romantically impaired? Read, 1001 Ways to Be Romantic.

T

Try a little tenderness. Be gentle. Practice the "soft touch." Go slow. Be intentional.

U

Uncover your deepest feelings. Speak them or write them to your lover. Communicate them unwaveringly. Let your emotions express themselves with sensitivity, understanding and love.

V

Vow your eternal love for each other. Renew your vows. Make some new ones. Look up the word "vow" in the dictionary. Live by your solemn promises.

W

Watch a sunrise or sunset together. Bring a picnic basket with snacks and your favorite beverage. Let the warmth you feel for your partner be felt.

X

X-plore your romantic dreams. Daydream about this one. Think. X-cellerate. Don't wait. Do something X-citing together; something you said you would do in the past, but you both have been putting off or making X-cuses about.

Y

Yearn for each other's touch. Don't hold back. A hug-a-day pays dividends beyond your wildest imaginings. AND. . . it feels good to be touched by the one you love.

Z

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz in each other's arms. Zero in on being close. Touching feels good. Enhance your enjoyment by listening to your partner's breathing cycle and to their heartbeat. Inhale and exhale together. Become as one.